Who Do You Think You Are?

Who Do You Think You Are?

If you've ever heard that little voice in your head whispering Who do you think you are to do this?, know that you're not alone.

Imposter syndrome has a way of showing up right at the threshold of something new — especially when you're about to share your work, your ideas, or your heart with the world.

I had a conversation with a client recently who's on the cusp of starting an online community — something she's deeply passionate about — yet the fear of what "people" might say is holding her back. What if they judge her? What if they think she's not qualified enough? What if they wonder who she thinks she is to step into this space?

Sound familiar?

The truth is, imposter syndrome doesn't show up when you're playing small. It shows up when you're stretching into something bigger — when you're daring to put your voice, your work, or your vision out into the world. That fear isn't a sign that you're not ready. It's a sign that you're growing.

Why Does Imposter Syndrome Show Up?

At its core, imposter syndrome is a protective mechanism. Our brains are wired to keep us safe — and safety often looks like staying small, unseen, and within the comfort of what we already know.

But staying small isn't what you're here for, is it?

The fear of judgment — of the invisible crowd who might have opinions — is really just your own inner critic in disguise. Most of the time, the harshest voice we hear is our own. And if there are people out there with something to say... well, those aren't your people.

The ones who need what you have to offer? They're not judging you — they're waiting for you to show up.

How to Move Through Imposter Syndrome

So, what can you do when that familiar voice pipes up?

1. Name It

Simply recognising that you're experiencing imposter syndrome takes away some of its power. Call it out: Ah, there you are. I see you. It’s not truth — it’s just fear, doing its job.

2. Shift the Question

Instead of asking Who do I think I am to do this?, try flipping it to Who am I not to?

If you've been given an idea, a passion, or a vision — it’s yours for a reason. What if the very thing you're afraid to share is exactly what someone else is waiting to receive?

3. Gather Evidence

Make a list of everything you've done that proves you're capable. It doesn't have to be huge achievements — small wins count too. Every client you've helped, every kind word you've received, every time you've followed through on something that scared you. Let those things be louder than the voice of doubt.

4. Take the Action Anyway

You don't wait for the fear to disappear before you start — you move forward with the fear. Confidence isn't something you feel first — it's something you build by doing the thing you're afraid of, one small step at a time.

5. Find Your People

Surround yourself with people who see you, believe in you, and will lovingly remind you of your magic when you've forgotten. Community is one of the greatest antidotes to imposter syndrome.

Your Voice Matters

Here's what I know to be true — if you're feeling called to create something, there's someone out there who needs exactly what you're offering. Your voice, your perspective, your way of doing things — no one else can offer it in quite the same way.

So, who do you think you are?

You're someone with something to share. You're someone with a heart that wants to serve. You're someone who's brave enough to take the next step — even with the doubt riding shotgun.

And that? That makes you exactly the right person for the job.

What if you stopped waiting to feel ready... and started showing up for the people who need you, just as you are, right now?

If you've been wrestling with imposter syndrome, I'd love to hear how it's showing up for you. What would taking one small, brave step look like today?